The Devastating Link Between Financial Difficulty and Suicide #WSPD16

It was overtime at a Predator’s hockey game when I got the call.

I squeezed past my row of anxious fans.

I raced by food vendors, families in line for the bathroom, and tired security guards. I barreled down three sets of stairs, spilling into the closed off street next to the arena.

There’s an eerie stillness just before a hockey game lets out.

Especially during overtime.

Just before tourists are set loose on Lower Broadway.  

For a few tense moments, it’s quiet. 

I stood alone in downtown Nashville, trembling, as I learned about my close friend’s suicide. That was the moment my entire world changed.

The Truth about Suicide

Chances are, you have been touched by suicide, too. 

Suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death for 24 to 35-year-olds.

Are you familiar with these heartbreaking facts?

  • Nearly 30,000 Americans commit suicide every year.
  • In the U.S., suicide rates are highest during the spring.
  • About 2/3 of people who complete suicide are depressed at the time of their deaths. Depression that is untreated, undiagnosed, or ineffectively treated is the number 1 cause of suicide.
  • Males make up 79% of all suicides, while women are more prone to having suicidal thoughts.
  • There are 2 times as many deaths due to suicide than HIV/AIDS.
  • Over 50% of all suicides are completed with a firearm.

Source: https://www.dosomething.org/us/facts/11-facts-about-suicide

The Link Between Mental Illness and Money Problems

Money and Mental Health Policy Institute points out the link between financial difficulty and suicide is well established.

According to their research, if you have had a “major financial crisis” within the past six months, you are nearly eight times more likely to experience suicidal thoughts. If you have multiple debts or are unemployed, you are particularly at risk.

Financial Resources in Tennessee

Tennesseans are especially vulnerable to financial issues.  

Our state is among the top three in the country for foreclosures.  

Where can we turn for help? Start with these resources:

Nashville Financial Empowerment Center

The Nashville Financial Empowerment Center provides free, professional financial counseling to Nashvillians citywide.

They help Davidson County residents reduce debt and build assets through free, one-on-one financial counseling incorporated into existing services offered in the city.

Tennessee Housing Development Agency

A new study from Vanderbilt found first-time home buyers who completed Tennessee Housing Development Agency’s homebuyer education course were much less likely to lose their home to foreclosure.

The Tennessee Housing Development Agency also offers free and confidential foreclosure prevention counselors throughout the state.

Tennessee Department of Treasury

The Tennessee Department of Treasury oversees a number of public programs dedicated to promoting financial literacy throughout Tennessee.

What You Can Do

  • Know the suicide warning signs. These include talking about suicide, seeking lethal means, preoccupation with death, no hope, self-loathing, getting affairs in order, saying goodbye, withdrawing, self-destructive behavior, and a sudden sense of calm.
  • Speak up. By reaching out and speaking with a loved one, you may provide relief from pent-up negative feelings and loneliness.
  • Respond quickly in a crisis. Take all comments about death or suicide seriously. Try to evaluate the immediate danger this person may be in.
  • Offer help and support. Being an empathetic, listening ear can go a long way. But don’t take responsibility for their recovery. Assist them with finding professional help. Be proactive during their treatment.

Raising Awareness 

Losing a loved one to suicide is devastating—especially when money problems were involved. By speaking openly about the link between money and mental illness, we are further reducing the stigma.

This blog post is part of the World Suicide Prevention Day blog tour. If you or someone you know is feeling suicidal, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or visit www.Suicide.org.

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Discussions — 21 Responses

  • Melanie @ Dear Debt September 10, 2016 on 11:44 am

    I am so sorry for your loss, Kate. Suicide’s effects can be so tough yet many of us don’t talk about it. Thanks so much for sharing!

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    • Kate Dore Melanie @ Dear Debt September 12, 2016 on 1:38 pm

      Thank you for organizing this blog tour, Melanie! I am totally blown away by everyone’s posts.

      Reply
  • Matt @ Optimize Your Life September 10, 2016 on 1:08 pm

    Thank you for sharing your story. We need more people to speak out and work on suicide prevention.

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    • Kate Dore Matt @ Optimize Your Life September 12, 2016 on 1:38 pm

      I agree, Matt! It has been amazing to hear from other bloggers.

      Reply
  • Ray Ray September 10, 2016 on 1:39 pm

    Thanks for sharing Kate. I am sorry to hear about this.
    It’s such a shame when people feel like they can’t deal with a problem. They feel like no one is there to help and that suicide is the only way out.

    Between 2010 and 2014 in Australia alone the average suicide was 2,577 per year…. too many.

    The more people talk about suicide the more awareness we will raise and the more deaths we can prevent.

    Thank you for sharing this story.

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    • Kate Dore Ray Ray September 12, 2016 on 1:36 pm

      Wow, that statistic from Australia is heartbreaking. Thank you for reading and commenting, Ray Ray.

      Reply
  • Pauline September 10, 2016 on 2:21 pm

    Very sorry about your friend. Thank you for raising awareness this is a topic that deserves more noise.

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    • Kate Dore Pauline September 12, 2016 on 1:35 pm

      Thank you for reading and commenting, Pauline.

      Reply
  • Tonya@Budget and the Beach September 13, 2016 on 2:06 pm

    I remember when you wrote about this when it happened Kate. 🙁 It seems of all the suicides I hear about, 99% of them are male. I wonder too if men have a harder time reaching out to talk about what is going on. I can’t imagine how bad one would have to feel to make that ultimate decision. 🙁

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    • TheHappyPhilosopher Tonya@Budget and the Beach September 16, 2016 on 7:33 pm

      Males are about 4 times more likely than females to die by suicide. Females attempt suicide 3 times as often as males.

      Men use more lethal methods for suicide (firearms). Women seek help more often than men.

      Suicide sucks.

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      • Kate Dore TheHappyPhilosopher September 17, 2016 on 1:14 pm

        Horrible statistics. Thank you for sharing, Jeff. It’s important to raise awareness about this.

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    • Kate Dore Tonya@Budget and the Beach September 17, 2016 on 1:20 pm

      I know, it’s so awful to think about, Tonya.

      Reply
  • DJ @ Money Goody September 13, 2016 on 10:09 pm

    Just finished reading a article about dealing with financial stress. This is definitely a topic that needs to be talked about more. A lot of people aren’t aware of the resources available out there, so anything that can be done to spread the word is great. Thanks for sharing your story Kate.

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    • Kate Dore DJ @ Money Goody September 17, 2016 on 1:21 pm

      Thank you for commenting, DJ. I totally agree! A lot more awareness is desperately needed.

      Reply
  • Finance Solver September 15, 2016 on 9:36 pm

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s hard to bear that a close friend would suicide because all of the memories you’ve had with that person.

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    • Kate Dore Finance Solver September 17, 2016 on 1:15 pm

      Indeed, Finance Solver. Suicide is devastating for all involved.

      Reply
  • Raj@financeclap September 17, 2016 on 9:55 am

    Life is very precious gift to us by God. This article describes all the reasons due to which people can commit suicide. All the signs and symptoms that can lead to suicide are discussed here. Also, the organizations that teach about financial literacy are being discussed. Read it and save lives of your loved ones.

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  • Jon September 17, 2016 on 4:02 pm

    I think there are so many suicides worldwide because of lack of communication. Any problem can be fixed if you open up and talk about it. You’ll feel better just by speaking about it and we shouldn’t ever have to bear something bad on our own. Even if we’re in debt it can still be solved but we need to encourage people to communicate and open up.

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  • Lynette September 22, 2016 on 9:50 pm

    Thank you for sharing this post Kate. Wish we met sooner. Let’s definitely stay in touch so we can do more to prevent further suicides and reduce stigma so our friends know they aren’t alone.

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    • Kate Dore Lynette October 4, 2016 on 2:35 pm

      Thanks, Lynette! I’m really glad we connected. Let’s look for ways to work together in the future.

      Reply
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